This is a touchy subject. Imo love sees no age but that doesnt mean that it should be accepted at all ages. Sure a 50 year old can fall in love with a 17 year old but that doesnt mean its approperate for them to act on it. I think that in younger people well under 21 anyway can fall in love with any age, but some relationships should be thought into before hand. As for example if there is going to be sexual relationships or a familys outlook on the whole thing. I think all things should be taken into consideration before starting a relationship with someone of a huge age difference. Even though I greatly believe that there is no age limit on love, I do believe there is an age limit on how serious relationships get and how intimate they get. In my person opinon I think someone should wait until they are at least around 18 to get engaged, now I wouldnt never go for this but in general I dont disagree with it. I just think that you have to mature enough to settle down with someone for the rest of your life.. and even if you are a really mature kid.. you have to have time to grow first. Now in my perfect world I believe that people should wait at least until after high school and when they either start college or start a job. Because you around that time you get responsiblities and you have to learn to grow up more. Marriage should be something taken very seriously and its not a walk in the park like everyone thinks. Something else I whole heartly believe in is that you have your WHOLLLE life to spend with someone, so why should you rush into marriage. You can just as easily stay in a very serious relationship with that person and find out EVERYTHING about them before plunging into it. (You may think you know everything about a person but you often dont) And then when you've been together for a long time everything will fall into place. After all what is a piece of paper when your with someone? These are all just my opinons on the subject soo dont get all mad if you dont agree. lol |